The Daily Notable (Web Desk) Sanam Saeed is a standout amongst the most bankable on-screen character of her time. Her last work Cake the Film, was an outstanding hit, gaining her acclaim and gratefulness from all around. The performer does not remain in the spotlight much and likes to keep her own life private.
Nonetheless, in a recent appearance on Samina Peerzada’s web show, Speak Your Heart With Samina Peerzada, Sanam opened up about her youth, marriage and how her mom’s grieving death influenced her.
Sanam, who tied the knot with her beloved childhood friend Farhan Hasan in 2015, shared that she got divorced from him since she couldn’t maintain a balance in her mom’s ailment and marriage.
“My mom was at death’s door and I was in Dubai. Around then, I wasn’t in a mood to keep up the parity and commitment required by a marriage. I needed to leave Dubai; I didn’t want to make sacrifices as I had a fear that perhaps my mother will pass away,” she stated while talking on the show.
She kept, “Hurting somebody is excessively grievous and I know how it feels, however it was the correct choice. It’s difficult to be hitched to an artist, when you’re not in the business, be it a man or a lady. You can’t believe somebody from the business when you don’t have a place with it. I generally figured it would work; this is the thing that we find in Hollywood and Bollywood — you wed somebody from your own kind (profession) or else you leave the business for a little bit — secondary focus, your marriage is the primary focus.”
Taking full responsibility of the breakup, Sanam said that her husband was fully supportive of her career but she felt he would be better off without her.
“It’s a senseless thing as he said ‘I just needed you, none other,’ yet I trusted that he would be in an ideal situation with somebody who can live there and give him time and maybe who isn’t excessively devoured by work and family duties,” she said.
Sanam also shared snippets from her childhood. Being the eldest, she said that she always had a sense of responsibility and was emotionally aloof.
Sanam additionally shared pieces from her youth. Being the oldest, she said that she generally had an awareness of other’s expectations and was candidly standoffish.
The eldest of the three siblings started off narrating her background and the old-school side of her maternal family.
“My mother was an art school teacher and my father was an interior designer. So we’ve been relatively open-minded as opposed to my conservative maternal side,” she revealed.
Speaking of her mother’s struggle of defying traditions and conservative notions deeply-rooted in her family, she revealed that her parent’s had
“I trust in no emotional connections. I was never the kind. I was 18 or 19 when I had my heart broken and from that point forward I’ve made a promise to secure it. Something else I’ve learned is to never blend kinship and love. Simply don’t do it,” she said.